One of the themes throughout the book is about learning and seeking support from others while also understanding how to be yourself, or in the words of Petra, understanding how to be "a very big Alexi." How does Pappas address this balance in her own life? Offer a specific example from the text to illustrate this point and then explain how this example explains your point. if can be done at least in 10 sentences. based on the book bravey.